Life Is A Process

 Life Is A Process

If you're reading my blogs, you know My Ellen died May 11th. My life since then has been interesting and rewarding. My relationships with my friends and Ellen's cousins have never been stronger. My dating situation has been interesting, to say the least, and the process has been rewarding.

I haven't found that special one, but I'm only five months in. The reason why the process has been rewarding is because the women I've met are so interesting. Most have lost their spouse either through divorce or death. Most have been without a serious relationship for a few years.

Some are out there looking for a long-term relationship. Some are just looking for friendship and some are unable to get over their lose. I have many. many friends, sooo, I'm not looking for another friend. I can't fix the ones that are having trouble getting over their husband and I choose not to try. Since marriage is not for me (I've had three and that's enough), I'm looking for a longtime Girlfriend.

My definition of a Girlfriend is someone who likes me as much as I like her. Someone who enjoys the things I enjoy, and we do things together. Lastly, we both have stopped looking for someone else. I've also realized that finding that person takes time. Sooo, if I didn't like the process, I'd never find someone.

Why am I telling you all of this? Assuming you give a shit, life is a process. If you love life, you'll enjoy the process. If you've given up on life, you'll hate the process. If you want a happy life, you'll love the process and if you think you'll never find the happiness you deserve, you'll hate the process.

Looking at it the other way, finding a way to accept and even enjoy the process will get you to be a positive and happy person.

Think About It