Time To Move On

 Time To Move On

The Wedding went off perfectly and everyone had a great time. Our Honeymoon was the best ever. Joyce and I are a fantastic match and we love each other greatly. However, this is not a blog about how to you find your perfect match. This is a blog about moving on with your life.

We both lost a loved one. I lost my Ellen about a year ago. Joyce lost the love of her life Richard about two years ago. We had a choice. We could cry, morn and become depressed for many, many months or even many, many years. However, we both decided it was Time To Move On.

Now we're living the dream. We have seen too many friends and family who have lost someone or even a way of life. Some of them can't get over their loss. Some of them become depressed. Some of them stop living the wonderful life they deserve. I say;

Time To Move On

Many have said to me that it's OK to grieve. Many have said that it's natural to feel bad. A few have taken me to task for moving on too quickly. I say;

Grieving is negative energy and if you don't come out of it quickly, you'll lose the happiness you deserve. That happiness is called - LIFE. Is it OK to feel bad? Yes, we are human. But, feeling bad for months is unhealthy. It will lead to mental and/or physical problems in your life. 

As for those who say you're moving on too quickly, I say;

Bullshit

Am I being inconsiderate? Am I being insensitive? My answer is a resounding NO. Life is already too short. If you want to believe you'll be going to a better place after this life - that's a big risk. The only life we really know for sure, is this life, here on earth (well, maybe Mars someday).

If you have lost loved ones or your way of life, please don't let those negative events pull you down. Deep down you know what you need to do - it's called;

Time To Move On