Its Not My Grip On Reality That Im Worried About Its Realities Grip On Me

 Its Not My Grip On Reality That I'm Worried About Its Realities Grip On Me

Another line in the funnies I read every day, "Its Not My Grip On Reality That I'm Worried About Its Realities Grip On Me: by Frank and Ernest. 

I currently live in the world of reality. My sister lived in the world of fantasy. Sooo, for me, Its Not My Grip On Reality That I'm Worried About Its Realities Grip On Me. Reality had a huge grip on me through my two devoices and losing loved ones. This negative reality greatly affected my happiness.

I have a bad back which is my current reality. However, my loving Joyce is also a reality for me. I love her grip on me and I love my reality of her. The thing that's most important to all of us is to accept reality for now and do what you can do to make it a positive.

Worrying about a negative reality that might or might not happen in the future, is dysfunction and will never lead to happiness. One way a person can achieve happiness is to create a positive reality in their future.

Just one example is that after losing my Ellen to heart attack, I decided to create a positive reality by finding Joyce. I could have curled up in a ball and lived in the reality of losing Ellen forever. I love life and I want a loving companion. I don't think it's just luck finding Joyce. I pushed myself to find a reality that makes me happy.

What about YOU? Have you accepted your current negative reality or do you love life enough to create a reality that makes you happy?