What Are They Afraid Of

What are they afraid of?  Well, first, who are they?  "They" are ordinary people, rich and poor, religious and not, people of the world, all colors, all faiths, the Church and many other organizations and even Chick-fil-A restaurant's President.

Are they afraid that everyone will become gay and the human race will eventually end because nobody will have babies?  Any intelligent person knows that won't ever happen.  The worst case is, if that happened, gay guys would make babies with gay women.  There are gay people now married and having babies.  Sooo, if anyone is afraid of that happening, they need a mental health specialist.

Are they afraid gay people will make them and their children gay?  I don't know of one gay organization dedicated to doing so.  There are organizations that want to bring down the government.  There are organizations that want to eliminate all people who are not white.  There are organizations who want to destroy the Jews, the Muslims and the gays.  However, I don't know of any gay organizations or groups of gay people who want everyone else to be gay.

Are they afraid that gay people will rape and plunder them?  There are approximately 208,000 rapes a year.  Much less than 1% are caused by a gay person.  There are hundreds of thousands of crimes each year.  Gays represent a very tiny number.  However, crimes against gays are far higher than the number of crimes perpetrated by gays.

Are they afraid that God will strike then down if they accept and support gays and gay marriage.  The Church says yes because the Bible tells them so.  If you believe the Bible is the message from God then please think about how it was written.  It didn't show up in book form out of the blue.  It wasn't etched in stone.  Holly people received a message from God and wrote it down.

Holly people are wonderful, but they are human.  Maybe they got the message wrong.  Maybe their fathers and mothers were afraid of gay people.  Maybe gays having sex discussed them.  The one thing I do know is these holly people were not gay.  If they were, maybe, just maybe, the message from God would have been written differently.

Are they afraid that every guy will start wearing leather or dress up in woman's clothing and wear make-up?  OK, work with me here, I'm just trying my best to figure out what the hell they're afraid of.  You do know that heterosexual men's cosmetic face and skin products are a fast growing market.

I know some of the gay community look different.  Some of the women look like men and some of the men look like women.  However, is that something to be afraid of?  I know thinking about two men having sex is not something I want to visualize.  However, two women having sex, now that's a different story.  

The facts are, gay people are just like us.  They work just like us.  They worry about finances just like us.  They fall in love just like us. They have gay and not gay friendships just like some of us. They have bad days and good days just like us. They adopt children just like us.  They love their children just like us.  They try their best to make a happy life for their children just like us.  Most of all, just like us, they want to have a happy life.

Do you really believe if they marry, your life will be worse?  Do you really believe if they marry, the Church will go under?  Do you really believe if they marry, your children and their children will grow up in a demon world?  Do you really believe if they marry the United States and the rest of the world will fall apart?  Come on, you know the answer to these questions is NO!

Sooo, what the hell are they afraid of.  I really don't know and I'm not sure they know.  I have never heard anyone give me a specific reason as to why being gay is wrong.  Saying the Bible says so, is leaving all your decisions to a book.  Saying it's just not right, is not an intelligent answer.  Saying that's the way I was brought up, is giving control of your life to the past.  Saying it discuss me, is saying you have no incite as to how you feel about things.

Probably many of my readers have no problem with gay people, but know people who do.  Probably some of my readers have no problem with gay marriage, however those who do, please ask yourself: "what am I afraid of?" "What's the worst that can happen?"  "Will anybody who loves me stop loving me?"  Will my journey to happiness crumble?"  

Being afraid of gays, Muslims, etc. etc. is no way to live your life.  Unless you have a really good reason, don't let fear of anybody make you unhappy. 

Loving Unconditionally Is An Important Way To Live A Life Of Happiness.