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I can get my head around as to why human males have evolved to have orgasms - it encourages them to have sex to preserve the human race. What I've always wondered is why do females have orgasms. Sooo, like most questions today, I went to the internet.


Much as women's breasts have fascinated many male, evolution-minded theorists, the female orgasm has confounded them. Like breasts, female orgasm is a major head-scratcher for mainstream narratives of human sexual evolution. It's not necessary for conception, so why should it exist at all? For a long time in fact, scientists claimed that women were the only female animals to experience orgasm. But once female biologists and primatologists arrived on the scene, it became obvious that many female primates were indeed experiencing full-on, wake-the-neighbors orgasms.

The underlying motivation for claiming that female orgasm was unique to human beings probably lay in its central role in the standard narrative of human sexual evolution. According to this view, orgasm evolved in the human female to facilitate and sustain the long-term pair bond at the heart of the nuclear family. Once you've swallowed that story, it becomes problematic to admit that the females of other primate species without a hint of nuclear families are orgasmic, too. Your problem gets worse if the most orgasmic species happen to be among the most promiscuous as well, which appears to be the case.

As primate sexuality expert Alan Dixson writes, this monogamy-maintenance explanation for female orgasm "seems far-fetched." "After all," he writes, "females of other primate species, and particularly those with multimale- multifemale [promiscuous] mating systems such as macaques and chimpanzees, exhibit orgasmic responses in the absence of such bonding or the formation of stable family units." On the other hand, Dixson goes on to note, "Gibbons, which are primarily monogamous, do not exhibit obvious signs of female orgasm." Although Dixson classifies humans as mildly polygynous in his survey of primate sexuality, he seems to have doubts, as when he writes, "One might argue that . . . the female's orgasm is rewarding, increases her willingness to copulate with a variety of males rather than one partner, and thus promotes sperm competition."



The internet is many times right, but this time I think it's wrong. My reasons for both men and women having orgasms are because it's FUN!  Feeling a woman’s breasts is FUN. Having a women feel a man’s genitals is FUN.  Oral sex is a lot of FUN for both parties. Having an orgasm during Intercourse is a shit load of FUN!!!


There are so many hang-ups surrounding sex I would need five blogs to write them all. Some religions believe the only reason to have sex is to make babies. Some groups believe enjoying sex is wrong. Some groups go to the extreme of removing a young woman's clitoris so she can't enjoy sex (guess who made up that idea - MEN).

Some people attribute sex to love. "I'm only going to have sex with the one I love." Some people believe you should only have sex when you're married. Some people believe not having sex makes you stronger. Some people believe not having sex will get you closer to GOD.

To those people, I'm definitely calling BULLSHIT! 

Why can't we stop being so serious about SEX and just see it for what it is - FUN. Assuming you're mature enough to use protection, why not screw your way through life for the FUN of it. OK, I get marriage should be sacred and it's disrespectful and just not right to be having SEX with other people - although some people think just the opposite.  Maybe those people have it right and all the rest of us are wrong. Those believers are probably having more FUN than the rest of us.

Sooo, what am I saying here - it's simple, SEX is FUN. No more thinking about it. No more stressing about it. No more believing what others have put into your head. No more theories as to why we have orgasms. STOP ALL THE HANG-UPS. Just go out and have as much SEX as you can because:

It's a hell of a lot of FUN!