When Is To Fat Too Fat And To Thin Too Thin

When Is To Fat Too Fat And To Thin Too Thin

Most of us think we could lose a few pounds. Many of us believe we are too fat. Many of us are wrong. My definition of too fat is when your weight affects your health - everything beyond that is cosmetic.

I used to say to everyone that I'll know I'm too fat when I can no longer get into my pants. Therefore, I spent many years stuffing myself into my too tight pants. I would have to suck in my breath to button the last button. I had to wear my pants way below my waist line. Sitting down or eating food was really uncomfortable.

A few months ago I called bullshit. The fact is in my seventy years I've only gained five pounds. What I didn't count on was that each year my chest moved closer and closer to my waist. Sooo, I got rid of my 31 and 32 inch pants and bought 33s. Now my pants fit and I walk around happy and comfortable.

Now, if a nude guy looks down and can't see his ball park frank, maybe taking off a few pounds would help. If a woman is strangling herself in Spanks so she thinks she looks better, maybe she could lose a few pounds. However:

Remember, if your weight is not affecting your health, you're not fat. It's your brain that thinks you need to lose weight. It's your brain that thinks you don't look good. If you wear weight appropriate clothes you will look great. If the outside world (media, etc.) or your spouse says "you're too fat" you tell them it's their standard not your standard.

If they won't stop, either ignore them or dump them for someone who loves the weight you are.

Ninety eight percent of women think they could never be too thin. Again, that's bullshit. Being too thin could have a major impact on your health. Sexually, a nude woman with no ass and ribs that stick out isn't giving any guy a boner. Also, when you're too thin you know the ninety eight percent of other women hate your guts.

I say, eat a cheese burger, fries and a milkshake a few times a month and put some meat on your bony ass.

Sooo, as my wife always says "listen to me." You are not too fat or too thin unless it's affecting your health. you just have to:

Love Yourself Exactly The Way You Are Because 

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.