Sex And Age - Sex And Marriage

Sex And Age - Sex And Marriage

We all know that sex will usually diminish with age. We all know that sex will usually diminish the longer people are married. BTW, this blog is not about love. Many times love increases with age and also many times love increases with a long term marriage. This blog is all about the quality and the quantity of the sexual act.

My favorite line by Woody Alan is: "it not the quantity of your sex that matters it's the quality. However, should the quantity drop to once every six months you better look into it."

Some people are OK without sex and some have given up trying. Let me remind you that in my previous blog called "SEX" my position was that sex should be thought of as fun. I recommended you drop all the barriers to a healthy sex life and just have fun.

With that said, why does sex diminish as we get older? Stress is one good answer. Stress at work, stress to make ends meet and stress with all the crap that's going on with you and the world. Younger people have much less stress and that's why they have lots and lots of sex.

Ageing creates physical problems that diminish the amount of sex. Guys lose testosterone and women lose estrogen as they age. Young people have loads of those two things and that's why they have sex like bunny rabbits. We have more physical ailments as we age. A really bad back is a barrier to fun sex.

Looking old does impact the amount of sex a person has. When you don't feel sexy you just aren't into having sex. When you look in the mirror and see this old person, it's hard to think about all the fun sexual positions you could be doing tonight.

The bottom line is sex and age is both mental and physical. Sooo, what do you do about it? I say, consider the other person. It can still be fun getting the other person off even if you're not into it. I say, fantasize the sexist person you would have a major organism with while you're making in-and-out with the person you're with now. 

I say, tell the person you're with to do the things you want them to do to get you off. I say, do everything you can do to mitigate your physical problems so you can continue to have lots of fun having sex. I say, look into the mirror and instead of seeing an ageing person, see a young, horny and sexy person who isn't done swinging from the rafters. 

Why Should You Do All These Things - Because Sex Is Something The Universe Gave Us So We Can Have A Shit Load Of Fun

Sex and Marriage comes with all the problems stated above plus the familiarity with having sex with the same person over and over again. 

I say, to continue having a fun sex life, do all the things I stated above plus at least once a week try something new. If it requires props use them. If it requires doing something you don't like doing (but your partner would really enjoy) get over yourself and do it. You won't die and maybe, just maybe you'll enjoy doing it.

Why Should You Do All These Things - Because Sex Is Something The Universe Gave Us So We Can Have A Shit Load Of Fun