Different Strokes For Different Folks

Different Strokes For Different Folks

One of the things that makes America great is we have different strokes for different folks. We agree on a lot of things, but at the same time we disagree on a lot of things. Those disagreements invoke conversation. Those disagreements make us think (unless you're a bull-headed asshole). The most important thing is we have the right to agree or disagree.

People in North Korea don't have that right. People who belong to terrorist groups don't have that right. Russia is moving is that direction by giving too much power to Putin. Therefore, even if we dislike the people or the government we disagree with, it's great that we have that right.

When it comes to religion I have very different strokes for different folks. When it comes to government policy I have different strokes for different folks. Those differences sometimes make the relationship stronger and sometimes weaker.

For example, I have a good friend who we argue over politics all the time. We really go at each other. Our strokes are 120 degrees (not 180 degrees) apart. After the disagreement we laugh and hug each other. He is smart, passionate and makes a great case for what he believes is true. I'm smart and passionate and a great debater. I make my case and he listens, but doesn't agree. He makes his case and I listen, but I usually don't agree. We are good friends and care for each other - politics will never change that.

On the hand, I have someone close to me who we recently had a strong disagreement regarding religion. That someone, who I've known my whole life, has decided to never talk to me again. It's a shame, but I can't change my views just to make peace. I respect his different strokes, but he doesn't respect mine. I hope in the future we can put this past us. We're too old to let this come between us.

Sooo, enjoy the fact that there are different strokes for different folks. Those differences will make you stronger and wiser. Sharing those differences should bring you closer not further away. Your opinion counts (unless you live in North Korea or with Terrorists). 

Never let those differences take away the love you have in your heart. Never let those differences ruin friendships. Never let those differences make you so angry and frustrated that you stop being a happy positive energy person. Remember:

America Allows You To Have Different Strokes For Different Folks. Enjoy this special freedom.